Kinky Erotic Sex

01 Aug 2018

Is it Sexy to be Tied Up?

Picture courtesy of Belle Bound

This is the question of the day, my day anyway. I started thinking about this while I was doing a review on a site all about tying women up and watching them try and get untied. Is this really a sexy thing? And if so, just what about this action makes it sexy? I am going to do my best to write about this for you and hope I do it justice.

From what I have seen and read, this is an kinky erotic sex position, and it is not always the women being tied up, sometimes it is the men and that is when it really gets a little kinky. This is a definite kink experience and well used in a lot of bed, I would say. It seems that when it comes to being tied up, it quickly becomes a control issue and some people love to be controlled. It takes any special requirements from the one that is tied up. This takes less decision making and who would not like that? I know it would sure take some stress from the one tied, making them just get to relax and take whatever is given and done to them.

The erotica comes in when you see someone coming at you and you do not know what is going to happen or what they will be doing to you. That alone can be very HOT!! You get to know what it feels like to have that anticipation, excitement, helplessness, and wonderment just waiting to see what it is going to be this time. Is it going to feel good, not so good or what? Whatever it is, it is erotic and full of curiosity.

So I asked a few people and just did some poking around on the internet and tried to find out exactly what this was all about. Common answers to this is that they like feeling that rope gives them, the world falling away and nothing has to be in their mind, it is just calming and relaxing. It is primal, when the ones that want to have something to fight against knowing that they cannot get away. This is still a kinky sex game and one that will or will not make you both feel that closeness.

Then you have the ones that seem to like being caught up in the fantasy, the idea of knowing that someone wants you so bad that they tie you up and will not let you get away from them. They have to have you and you cannot do a thing about it. Then there is the part that being tied up seems to make the person being tied feel closer to the one doing the tying.

I would recommend trying this at least once in your adult life, but make sure your partner knows what is going on and agrees to play this game with you, you have to get their permission. Otherwise, this could end very badly and then you would try and blame me. Just remember, I said, Go get permission before you tie your lover up!!".

Posted by Tam